source 1/ The Myth of Common Sense The book quotes the debunked Milgram experiment (using high voltage to punish students). Not good. Our lives are guided and shaped by unwritten rules, which are too abundant to write them all down and for one to know them all. Many of them are intuitive to the point that the brain just makes a snap decision based on the non-verbal feedback from another person (breaking eye contact, for instance).
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